Do You Hear What I Hear…sounds like it should be the title of Christmas song, doesn’t it? But alas, this post is not about Christmas. Sorry. This post is about hearing the truth…maybe listening is a better word here. And more than just listening to the truth, this is about applying the truth to our lives.
This week, we had new windows installed at our home (Yay for us!). The tax credit helped to make it the right timing for us. We’ve been losing A/C during the summer months and letting cold air in during the winter months for years through windows that are as old as me! So anyway, our window installer was a pretty nice guy…let’s say he was a jolly soul…since it’s Christmas and all. And so, as he worked, he and I talked…it was an all-day job so there was plenty of time to talk. As we talked, he shared with me about his kids. He’s a pretty fortunate guy. His kids love and respect him, and they communicate with each other. So, he tells me that his daughter is in her second year of college but is getting discouraged and is thinking about dropping out. He had encouraged her, but once he learned about my academic background, he asked me to talk to her and encourage her to finish. She was coming by my house to drop off some tools that he needed for the job so I would have a chance to see her.
While the story could go on, it doesn’t need to. Because here’s my point…
Why is it that we often only listen and accept truth when it comes from “an expert”?
In this story, the father had talked to his daughter, but he thought that she would listen better to someone like me with a bunch of college experience. This kind of thing happens at church, too. Our pastor can make powerful truth statements, but when we hear it at the men’s conference from a guy who pastors a church of over 10,000, suddenly it clicks, and we accept it. Here’s another one, when we were kids, our parents could communicate valuable truth to us until they were blue in the face, but we didn’t believe it until we heard Dr. Phil say it on the Oprah Winfrey show. What’s up with that?
I think you know where I’m going with this…
Be a 360 Learner
Learn from those above you, beside you, and below you. Truth is truth, even if it comes from unlikely sources. So parents, learn from your kids. Employers, learn from your employees. And spouses, learn from each other.