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This week in our church’s volunteer inspiration meeting. We talked about the five steps for reproducing volunteers. Keep reading to learn more about the process.
Five Steps to Reproducing Volunteers

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Every organization could benefit from extra volunteers, and the best way to get them is to grow them yourself. Rather than simply hoping volunteers will simply walk in the front door and sign up, it’s probably better to get your existing volunteers to find an apprentice, a padawan learner if-you-will. The apprentice can then learn from the mentor in a hands-on way.  That’s the ideal.
Here is a simple five-step procedure to think through when you’re trying to reproduce more awesome volunteers:
  • First Step: I do. You watch. We talk.
  • Second Step: I do. You help. We talk.
  • Third Step: You do. I help. We Talk.
  • Fourth Step: You do. I watch. We Talk.
  • Fifth Step: You do. Someone else watches.

For more on information about reproducing volunteers, consider picking up Dave & Jon Ferguson’s book Exponential (affiliate link). That’s the book from where these insights were drawn. Happy reading!

Did you miss last week’s volunteer meeting notes? We talked about being volunteers who are F.A.T. Go check it out!

Check Out Perry Noble’s New Book: Unleash!

My Amazon Review of Unleash!

Perry Noble has earned the “right” to write this book. From humble beginnings, God has uniquely gifted him with the capacity and desire to pastor one of America’s largest and fastest growing churches. In reality, Perry has experienced first-hand the kind of unleashed living that he explains in the book.

The book itself will challenge your current condition and compel you to embrace God’s unleashing grace. You don’t have to be stuck in duty-oriented religion or in the chains of your past experiences. You can move forward, see triumph in tragedy, and take your next step in your relationship with God.

This book is filled with practical principles as well as Perry’s personal experiences. The book flows well, and it’s an easy read. You will stay engaged, especially because of Perry’s storytelling abilities. Because of these things, it’s worth the read. You will get something out of it. In fact, here is one of my favorite excerpts:

One of the quickest ways to forget what God says about me is to focus on what the enemy says about me.

Buy the Book

This is just a small sampling of the message of the book. Get your copy today!

(Click here to buy the book right now, using my affiliate link.)

Go to the Unleash Conferences!

As an aside, I have also personally benefited from attending Perry’s Unleash Conference in the spring and the NewSpring Leadership Conference in the fall. These are great church leadership events. Google these event names to learn more. The NewSpring folks are hospitable, and I promise that you will learn something from your time in Anderson, SC. Invest in these experiences. You won’t regret it. I promise.

Stay Tuned for More

In the coming days, I’ll be posting a review that includes my personal insights and favorite quotes from the book. In the meantime, keep reading!

2012 Exponential Notes: Contagious Church

This post is the second in a series from my time at the Exponential Conference in Orlando, FL last month. I will post several others in this same category. I invite you to browse all of the notes that I took.

Exponential – Contagious Church

Contagious Church: Turning mere attendees into zealous advocates.

Orlando, FL
Speaker: Larry Osborne
Topic: Contagious Church
Date: April 25, 2012

3 Things Every Pastor Needs to Know about

1. You need to know that no one wants to be used.

 

  • We use them because we see them as pawns for our vision.
  • You need to see the world from your lay people’s perspective.
  • If you don’t understand the real world, you will set up unrealistic expectations.

2. Assimilation is not retention.

  •  Don’t measure assimilation. Measure retention.

3. Attendees become advocates when they experience three things: (1) satisfaction, (2) confidence, and (3) trust.

  • An attendee shows up every week. An advocate brings people with them…without being asked.

Turning Advicates into Zealous Advocates

1. SATISFACTION – Are people satisfied with both the product and the process?

  • If people are satisfied with the product but mildly uncomfortable with the process, they will keep coming back, but they won’t bring anyone with them.
  • Don’t be fooled by those who simply keep coming back because they’re not advocates, they’re just attendees.
  • How often do our people says, “Our church is great, but you need to know…” Usually, that phrase leads to a negative comment.
  • At what point in our service, do people feel (1) confused, (2) out of control, or (3) stupid?
  • Be careful of insider language: locations, abbreviations, etc. Every place you have it is a chance for confusion. If anything has a subtitle, the subtitle should be the title.
  • You need to occasionally take an audit in order to review what you have accidentally done.
  • Use plain language with your audience when teaching,
  • Always talk like there is a room full of new people. It communicates to people that their unchurched friends will be able to manage.

2. CONFIDENCE – Are people confident that the experience will always be the same?

  •  One “throw away Sunday” will ruin the “come and see” experience. People won’t invite people if they’re scared it might be a bad week to invite someone.
  • You don’t have to hit a home run, you just need consistency. Home run guys, lead the league in strikeouts. The same is true in church world.
  • Consistency is more important than quality.
  • People want to know if you’re real. Excellence is a thing of the past.

3. TRUST – Do people trust the character and integrity of leadership?

  • Trust takes a long time to build, but only seconds to lose (in the big stuff and the small stuff). Moral failures and misleading announcements.
  • When you say people will like it, they should like it. When you say it is good, it should be good. When you say the Bible says, they need to be able to trust you.

Notes & Quotes

  • In th Christian world, we often use the same words, but a different dictionary.
  • At North Coast Church, we don’t do any marketing or advertising.
  • At North Coast Church, we’ve never done a special outreach or service.
  • At North Coast Church, we are service and small groups (sermon-based).
  • At North Coast Church, I’ve never asked people to bring their friends. If you have to ask people to bring their friends, you’re not doing something right. If you do the right things, people will tell people by world-of-mouth, without request.

2012 Man Up Men’s Conference – Session 5

On April 20 & 21, 2012, the men from my church attended the 2012 Man Up Men’s Conference in Orlando, FL. The conference featured powerful and insightful messages from Jerry Thorpe & Jim Groves. This is the fifth & final post in the series.

The notes may be hard to follow, but feel free to browse them for insights. Especially, check out the “Notes & Quotes” section at the bottom.

More valuable insights about manhood can be found in the writings of Robert Lewis. Check out his books: Raising Modern-Day Knights, Real Family Values, and Rocking the Roles. You’ll be glad you did.

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Man Up Men’s Conference

Orlando, FL

Speaker: Jerry Thorpe
Topic: Wandering
Text: The Wilderness Wandering of Numbers 13-ff, Psalm 90:12, Joshua 1:1-9
Date: April 21, 2012

1. You must have courage (Joshua 1:1-2, 6-7, 9)

2. You must major on God’s Word (Joshua 1:8)

3. You must trust in the presence of God (Joshua 1:5, 9)

Notes & Quotes

 

  • “The unexamined life is not worth living.” – Socrates
  • If we’re not careful in our marriages, things will just become routine. You’ll get into a rut.
  • It’s easy to get distracted watching ESPN or enjoying your hobby, giving your kids the crumbs of your life.
  • “Once we take the wrong road, we cannot get on the right road until we go back to the place where we made the wrong turn.” – Jim Bakker
  • On friendships: friends should make you live better morally, and friends should stimulate your thinking.
  • On health: “Nothing tastes as good as slim feels.”
  • On life & success: I was climbing the ladder of success, but when I got to the top, I realized the ladder was leaning against the wrong building.
  • On marriage: Communication is the first thing that breaks down.
  • On relationship with God: Communication is the first thing that breaks down.

 

2012 Man Up Men’s Conference – Session 4

On April 20 & 21, 2012, the men from my church attended the 2012 Man Up Men’s Conference in Orlando, FL. The conference featured powerful and insightful messages from Jerry Thorpe & Jim Groves. This is the fourth post in the series.

The notes may be hard to follow, but feel free to browse them for insights. Especially, check out the “Notes & Quotes” section at the bottom.

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Man Up Men’s Conference

Orlando, FL

Speaker: Jim Groves
Topic: Trusting God
Text: Genesis 3:10, 2 Corinthians 5:21
Date: April 21, 2012

Story: The Fork in the Road (Trusting God vs Pleasing God)

  • Trusting God seems nebulous.
  • Pleasing God seems more manageable and concrete.
  • We take that path. Then, we come to a building. On the building is a door.
  • On the door, there is a sign that reads, “Striving to please God.”
  • On the door, there is a door knob that read, “Effort.”
  • Behind the door, is the “Room of Good Intentions.”
  • In the room, everyone wears a mask, pretending everything is great.
  • In the room, a banner reads, “Working on my sin to achieve an intimate relationship with God.”
  • It seems to hard. Eventually, I can hear that behind the masks, no one is fine.
  • So, I leave the room.
  • I go back down the path and come to the fork in the road.
  • I choose “Trusting God.”
  • And, I come to another door with a sign that reads, “Living out of who God says I am.”
  • The door knob here reads, “Humility.”
  • I enter in, and it’s “The Room of Grace.”
  • I think I’m back where I already was.
  • They ask how I am, and I shout out, “I’m not fine! I’m a sinner. Things are bad!”
  • From the back of the room, I man shouts back, “Is that all you got?”
  • Suddenly, I realize no one in this room is wearing a mask.
  • Then, I see the banner in the room, which reads, “Standing with God with me sin in front of me, working on it together.”
  • Reflections

  • It is impossible is actually please God.
  • We must trust God.
  • Application

  • Some of you give your wife only one path: “pleasing my husband,” which means she must enter “the door of striving to be all you want her to be.” So, she must turn the door knob of “effort.” She’ll have to work really hard to be what you want. Entering the room of “good intentions,” she’ll have to “work on her challenges to achieve an intimate relationship with you.” And then, there’s the mask of “everything’s fine.”
  • You wouldn’t want this in your relationship with God. So, why would she want it.
  • Instead, let her choose “trusting my husband,” which leads to the door of “living out of who my husband says that I am.” She’ll turn the door knob of “Love” and enter the “room of grace.” here she will “stand with you, with your challenges in front of you, working on them together.”
  • Notes & Quotes

  • Your marriage reveals your relationship with Jesus Christ.
  • Single guys, get your act together before you mess up some girls life by marrying her.
  • Guys hide behind things that make them feel better: bigger tv, bigger house, bigger paycheck, bigger car, bigger, bigger, bigger.
  • We have wrongly believed that performance is the key to acceptable.
  • Be careful of Santa Claus Theology: “You better watch out. You better not cry. You better not pout, I’m telling you why. Santa Claus is coming to town. He’s making a list and checking it twice. He’s gonna find out who’s naughty or nice. Santa Claus is coming to town.”
  • “God isn’t interested in changing you because He already has.”
  • 2012 Man Up Men’s Conference – Session 3

    On April 20 & 21, 2012, the men from my church attended the 2012 Man Up Men’s Conference in Orlando, FL. The conference featured powerful and insightful messages from Jerry Thorpe & Jim Groves. This is the third post in the series.

    The notes may be hard to follow, but feel free to browse them for insights. Especially, check out the “Notes & Quotes” section at the bottom.

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    Man Up Men’s Conference

    Orlando, FL

    Speaker: Jerry Thorpe
    Topic: Successful Living
    Text: Philippians 3:13-14
    Date: April 21, 2012

    Synopsis: “This one thing I do, forgetting the things behind, I press on to the finish line.”

    Outline:

    1. This One Thing I Do (Goal or Mission for Life)

    Characteristics of True Goals:

  • A true goal should be identifiable.
  • A true goal should be measurable.
  • A true goal should be challenging.
  • A true goal should be public.
  • Reflection & Questions to Ask Yourself:

  • What are your spiritual goals?
  • What are your health goals?
  • What are your marriage goals?
  • What are your family goals?
  • What are your financial goals?
  • What are your work goals?
  • What are your ministry goals?
  • 2. Forgetting Those Things Which Are Behind

    Two Things You Have to Forget:

  • Forget your inadequacies.
  • Forget your skeptics.
  • Three Tings You Have to do to Walk on Water:

  • Get out of the boat.
  • Forget the storm.
  • Ignore the boat people.
  • 3. I Press On (Don’t Quit)

    Notes & Quotes

  • Successful living begins with a salvation experience. Otherwise, all your success doesn’t matter.
  • If you aim at nothing, you will hit it every time.
  • What would you do if you knew you could not fail.
  • 2012 Man Up Men’s Conference – Session 2

    On April 20 & 21, 2012, the men from my church attended the 2012 Man Up Men’s Conference in Orlando, FL. The conference featured powerful and insightful messages from Jerry Thorpe & Jim Groves. This is the second post in the series.

    The notes may be hard to follow, but feel free to browse them for insights. Especially, check out the “Notes & Quotes” section at the bottom.

    If you’re interested in more resources regarding biblical manhood, check out the writings of Robert Lewis. His books Raising Modern-Day Knights, Real Family Values, and Rocking the Roles are especially helpful. Look them up!

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    Man Up Men’s Conference

    Orlando, FL

    Speaker: Jim Groves
    Topic: Identity
    Text: Romans 6:1-10
    Date: April 20, 2012

    Outline:

    Word Picture: Man-Eating Grizzly Bear

    Imagine you’re being chased by a man-eating grizzly bear. As you run away, you come upon a log cabin, and dart inside, locking the door behind you. Now, you’re safe, but you don’t necessarily feel that way.

     

    • Step 1: Truth – You are safe
    • Step 2: Faith – I believe I am safe.
    • Step 3: Works – Live like a safe man. Act like a safe man.
    • Step 4: Feelings – I finally begin to feel safe…sort of.

     

    * Replace “safe” with any other truth from the Bible: forgiven, accepted, a saint, Christ’s friend, and the dwelling place of the Holy Spirit.

     

    • Step 1: Truth – You are accepted
    • Step 2: Faith – I believe I am accepted.
    • Step 3: Works – Live like a safe man. Act like a accepted man.
    • Step 4: Feelings – I finally begin to feel accepted…sort of.

     

    * Work through this pattern.

    * Focus on the right things you are supposed to do, and you will stop doing the wrong things.

    * Focus on your true identity and act that way. Your feelings will catch up.

    Notes & Quotes:

     

    • You will live out what you really believe to be your true identity. Not what you say is your true identity.
    • Emotions get in the way of our obedience.
    • Most adultery starts with this feeling: I feel unloved.
    • Hypocrisy is acting differently than you are, not acting differently than you feel. Only Satan defines it as acting differently than you feel. Jesus defines it as the former.

     

    2012 Man Up Men’s Conference – Session 1

    On April 20 & 21, 2012, the men from my church attended the 2012 Man Up Men’s Conference in Orlando, FL. The conference featured powerful and insightful messages from Jerry Thorpe & Jim Groves. This is the first post in the series.

    The notes may be hard to follow, but feel free to browse them for insights. Especially, check out the “Notes & Quotes” section at the bottom.

    Do you want to read more about manning up? Check out Robert Lewis’s books Raising Modern-Day Knights, Real Family Values, and Rocking the Roles. You’ll be better for it.

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    Man Up Men’s Conference

    Orlando, Florida

    Speaker: Jerry Thorpe
    Topic: The Challenges of Life
    Text: 2 Timothy 2:15
    Date: April 20, 2012

    Outline:

    1. Is the Lord Well-Pleased? (2 Timothy 2:15a)

    You must have a passion for pleasing God.

    2. Is Your Work Well-Done? (2 Timothy 2:15b)

    You must have a passion for excellence.

    Three areas that need a commitment to excellence:

     

    • You must be excellent in your marriage.
    • You must be excellent in your relationship with your children.
    • You must be excellent in your service to God.

     

    3. Is the Word of God Well-Used in Your Life? (2 Timothy 2:15c)

    You must have a passion for the Word of God.

     

    • If you make the Bible part of your life, it will change your life.

     

    Notes & Quotes:

     

    • God is more concerned with what you are than what you look like.
    • “Being obsessed about what other people think about me is the quickest way to forget what God thinks about me.” – Craig Groeschel
    • “The three greatest days in a person’s life are the day they were born, the day they were born again, and the day they come to grips with why they were born and why they were born again.” – Howard Hendricks
    • For your kids, love is spelled TIME.

     

    Adding Value to People (Video)

    I recently came across this helpful (and short) video from John Maxwell.  He asks the questions, “Why Do You Want to Be A Leader?” A good question to ask ourselves. Sometimes our motives get muddied. It’s time for a gut check.

    The truth is that we should lead because we want to add value to people. Watch the video to hear what John Maxwell has to say about this important aspect of leadership. It’s an excerpt from the Catalyst Conference a few years ago.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=grJZRVnzn8Y

    Is My Password Strong Enough? (Infographic)

    Have you ever asked yourself that question before?  Is my password strong enough?

    Have you noticed how much tougher it is getting when it comes to choosing passwords?  Back in the day, all you had to remember was a basic 3-4 digit code.  The lock on your bike had three numbers.  The lock on your locker…three numbers.  Your ATM pin code…four numbers.  It was simple back then.  Now, some site require lowercase letters, uppercase letters, numbers, and even symbols!  We are being forced to choose stronger passwords to make sure our information is safe.

    So… are you having a hard time remembering them yet?  If so, I have a solution.  Stop trying to remember three, four, or five different passwords (and which ones are used on which sites), and instead develop one system for remembering countless passwords.  Let me share with you what I learned from this article at Lifehacker.com.

    Remember 100 different passwords with 1 rule set.

    You don’t need to remember 100 passwords if you have 1 rule set for generating them. One way to generate unique passwords is to choose a base password and then apply a rule that mashes in some form of the service name with it. For example, you may use your base password with the first two consonants and the first two vowels of the service name. Say your base password is “asdf.” (See how easy those keys are to type?). Then your password for Yahoo would be ASDFYHAO, and your password for eBay would be ASDFBYEA.

    Something simpler – but along the same lines – might involve the same letters to start (say, your initials and a favorite number) plus the first 3 letters of a service name. In that case, my password for Amazon would be GMLT10AMA and for Lifehacker.com GMLT10LIF. (Include obscure middle initials – like your mother’s maiden name or a childhood nickname – that not many people know about for extra security.)

    Before you decide on your single password generation rule, keep in mind that while password requirements are different for each service in terms of length and characters allowed and required, a good guideline is a password at least 8 characters long that includes both letters and numbers. To make a password even more secure – or applicable for services that require special characters – add them around it, like #GMLT10LIF#.

    Good good idea, huh?  Now, go start implementing it in your life.  It’ll really simplify things.

    And, just in case you aren’t convinced of the weakness of your current password scheme, check out this infographic about passwords generated by ZoneAlarm. (Click the infographic to see a larger version)

    Password Strength Infographic

    Now, go protect yourself.

    (Via ChurchCrunch, Lifehacker, & ZoneAlarm)